Double your dating askmen
There is so much written about how women are not as good at negotiating as men are.
Lots of studies show that women don’t even start negotiating — nine times out of ten, men will ask and women won’t.
Also, I noticed that men don’t generally ask for what they want.
The classic example: They ask you out to lunch when what they really want is sex.
Women, if you needed some pointers on how to make yourself more attractive to men, then it’s your lucky day!
Men on Reddit have been furiously adding to an Ask Men thread entitled: ‘What is something women think makes them more attractive to men while men think it makes them less attractive? Also if a guy thinks that’s sexy it’s creepy.’ What if it’s just her normal voice?
That revelation came from Ask Men's 2011 Great Male Survey, a month-long online poll, which Business Insider partnered with, that aims to understand how the "modern man" thinks and behaves. Office romances, however, are more tricky to predict than the regular dating story line. It’s supported by reams of sociological research.’ A man who finds it unattractive when a woman is successful is not a man you want to be with. ‘Overly cheery/peppy/upbeat – not in an “immediately annoying” way, but if it were my actual personality I could see it wearing on people.’ We can’t all be miserable. ‘Too much perfume.’ We didn’t spend £100 on this bottle for people not to smell it. ‘I get tired of the female hard body kick ass leather boots and jacket TV shows. ‘Personally I don’t like nail polish, I’m OK with any colour EXCEPT red.’ Thank god you said, we were about to go all out rouge on our toes – crisis averted. User Liquiditi was one of the only people talking sense in the thread, saying: ‘Honestly this type of thread is kind of pointless isn’t it? ‘High heel shoes…they are impractical and will cripple her making her a liability in the future…’ Sorry, what? ‘I’m surprised nobody has mentioned a high-powered career. Turning down a guy’s advances so as not to seem too easy.’ Ever considered it’s ‘cos we just…didn’t want to? ‘Damn, I cannot stand high waist pants.’ Damn, we love ’em. ‘I find it weird that girls spend most of their time trying to make other girls think they’re attractive, rather than guys.’ Maybe ‘cos we’re not the competitive b*tches you think we are, we care more if a fellow female likes our dress than if a guy on Reddit does, because goddammit, women have better taste. Bright and/or bold lip colours You have no idea how fun it is choosing which colour lip to go with, and you probably never will. ‘Taking nothing but selfies on Instagram, yeah you look good but if you literally show me that you don’t have anything to offer besides good looks I can’t respect you.’ Yeah, fair enough. Luckily, the comments only represent the views of a handful of the male species on the world wide web, and not the hopefully less misogynistic versions we all know and love.
I much prefer the flowery dresses from the past.’ We’ll get back in the kitchen, shall we? Everyone has different tastes so things girls do will make them attractive to some men and not to others.’ Hear, hear.And this starts with knowing how to go on first dates.